Top 9 reasons why your Natural Hair isn’t growing.

My hair isn’t growing? How can I grow my hair? This sounds like you, right?

Hello mane embracers, I hope your crowns are flourishing and your skin glowing. Thank you for stopping by and welcome to my natural hair blog.

My hair isn’t growing? How can I grow my hair? This sounds like you, right? First, your hair is always growing and the reason why you are not seeing any length might be because you have unrealistic growth goals, you keep checking your length every now and then, your hair care practices ain’t working for your hair or you are not retaining any length. Are you retaining any length? All tips on how to retain length here.


Why isn’t my hair growing?

Hair Regimen/Routine.

Hello sis, do you have a regimen and hair care routine? If yes, are you consistent? Just like you have a skin care routine and a routine to achieving your body goals, your hair needs a healthy and consistent hair care regimen/routine for it to grow. You have no idea how to go about with getting a hair regimen? Check out my hair regimen here, to help put on in place.


Almost every person who complains their hair ain’t growing, the complain is followed by “…. and it’s breaking a lot too.” Breakage is bound to happen cos of manipulation and all but if it’s breaking too much, you need to have a look at your hair care practices. Are you over manipulating? Do you moisturize? When was the last time you trimmed? Are your products meant to be used for natural hair? If this is you, get to know causes of breakage here.

Moisture! Moisture! Moisture!

First, never manipulate dry hair and Second, keep your hair moisturized this way you’ll minimize breakage cos dry hair easily breaks. Moisturize as soon as you notice your hair is dry according to your porosity type. Did I say ensure your hair is moisturized before styling? Use the LOC/LCO moisturizing methods to moisturize and check out more ways you can add moisture to your hair here.

Unrealistic length goals.

We all want our hair at waist length or shoulder length in its shrunken state but that length goal won’t happen overnight. Sis, if you keep looking in the mirror checking that length, you’ll get discouraged. Do the hair care work and your hair will reward you not instantly but eventually. Make realistic length goals as well Rome wasn’t built overnight, everything worth having takes time.

Heat styling.

Minimal heat is okay but frequently using heat will weaken your hair and weak hair means breakage. If you can avoid heat please do and if it’s impossible use it at low heat.

Protective styling.

Protective styles are good for your hair if they are protective, not all protective styles are protective. If your hair is pulled, a small section of hair is attached to a mega extension, you have to style it daily well, it isn’t a protective style. A protective style is meant to protect your hair from manipulation and everyday tension. If you want to know if your protective styles are actually protective, check out here.

Excessive brushing and combing.

Don’t be pulling your hair, brushing and combing it every now and then and expect to see growth. Frequently doing this will thin and weaken your strands and cause tension to your scalp and if the scalp ain’t healthy, neither is the hair and don’t expect the growth you so much desire. First, get to know how to care for your scalp here and second, be gentle when brushing/combing your hair, don’t do it like always and use the right brushes and combs.

Trimming and dusting.

Regular trims are a part of growing healthy hair. No one wants to part with their hair but why have split ends that will give your favorite styles a rugged look? If you skip trims, the split ends will travel up your length and you’ll part with a lot of inches and trust me that’ll be a painful experience so the earlier the better. Seated there wondering if you need a trim? Well, I got you here.

Bedtime care.

How your care for your hair while sleeping matters. What do you sleep in/on. Cotton pillowcases and scarf can cause breakage since they absorb moisture from your hair and the friction between your hair and cotton material weakens your hair. Sleep on satin/silk pillowcases and bonnets, the are gentle.

Growing out your hair isn’t as hard as you feel it is and neither is it easy. Everything gets better with consistency and once you know what your hair loves and feed it more of that, it’ll reward you.

Love your at every stage and pay attention to it’s likes and dislike. To grow your hair you ought to have a loving relationship with it and put effort.

All said and done, are you interested in being coached and having me journey with you on achieving 2021 hair goals, connect with me on my Facebook page here.

Till the next post, take care and love yourself fiercely and share this with anyone who may need this, Sharing is caring.💜💜💜

Everything Tangles and how to properly detangle Type 4 Natural Hair.

Tangles! Tangles! Tangles! Let’s talk about causes of tangles and how to properly detangle even the worst tangles. Long time no post but here we are. Hello ManEmbracers, I hope your hair is growing and skin glowing. Welcome to my blog and be sure to keep it here for hair care tips. Let’s talk about tangles for a minute but first, is your hair always tangled? Here is why. Tangles and knots can be such a pain but can be minimized. How to minimize tangles. Keep your hair moisturized. Moisturize properly and regularly. Let go of damaged and split ends. Don’t keep your two strand twists for too long and re-twist when you notice your roots are getting fluffy after cleansing. Detangle properly  Consider low manipulation styles to wearing your hair out Wear low manipulation & protective styles on stretched hair. Pat your hair with an old t-shirt/ towel to absorb the water after cleansing or use a microfiber towel. Avoid vigorously rubbing your hair with a towel. Essential detangling tools. Spray bottle Hair clip or scrunchies Wide-tooth comb Micro-fiber towel Conditioner/ Detangler Detangling brush How to properly detangle/ ultimate detangling steps. Work with sections. First, section into smaller parts. Detangling smaller sections is easier and not as time consuming. Start with damp hair. Spray water on your hair until damp. Add a conditioner/ detangler with a good slip to smoothen the tangles. Start detangling from the ends to the roots with your fingers. Don’t snap off the tangles, slowly separate the strands from the tangle. Comb with a wide tooth comb from the ends to the roots of each section then run it through your entire length. You can also use a detangling brush to detangle. Twist / braid or clip the detangled section and repeat the same for all other sections. Detanglers & conditioners to check out / purchase. TGIN Quench 3-in-1 Co-Wash Conditioner and Detangler SheaMoisture Raw Shea Butter Extra-Moisture Detangler Aunt Jackie’s Curls and Coils Knot On My Watch Instant Hair Detangling Kinky-Curly, Knot Today, Natural Leave in / Detangler Oyin Handmade Oh My Glide! Prestyling Detangler Taliah Waajid Curls, Waves & Naturals The Great Detangle Marini Naturals 3 IN 1 Leave-In Conditioner  Saru Organics Tea Tree And Peppermint Detangler SHETH NATURALS Detangling Instant Conditioner Share with the tribe your detangling tips and detangling products and tools that have worked for you.

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Natural hair Styles; 5 Easy to achieve styles.

I did a thing guys. Your girl is on a mission to try new styles and up her styling game. Hello Mane Embracers, I hope your hair is growing and skin glowing. Welcome to my blog and be sure to keep it for healthy hair care tips and tricks. Flat twist-out Afro I did another thing, installed flat twists as my low manipulation style for a week or so and the flat twist-out turned to an Afro. I love wearing my Afro or may be I love it because my styling game is 👎👎👎. Either way we all agree that afros are cute. Bun & bangs. First, I uploaded a tutorial on Facebook and Instagram, be sure to check out. It’s an easy to achieve style. Got no time to figure out how style your hair? Well, this style is for you. Bun & flat twist Same bun but flat twisted the bangs & the look gave me some ‘ hey there, praise and worship & good gal vibe.’ It’s an official look, easy to achieve style & a less than 5 minutes style. Low puff & twists. I live for high puffs but side puffs are okay too. I loved the look & the twists were, “hide my forehead thing.” Hello fellow gals with a big forehead & heart. Twists & tucked twists. Turned the low puff to chunky twists and pinned them. For a moment I thought I had locs but they don’t look like locs though. The IT style. How gorgeous is this style? I would love to know which of the styles is your favorite.

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