If you’re anything like me, you’ve probably spent countless hours figuring out the best way to grow your natural hair to its fullest, healthiest potential. But let’s get one thing straight—when it comes to natural hair, retaining length is where the real magic happens. Sure, our hair is always growing, but if we’re not careful, breakage and damage can make it seem like our hair isn’t getting any longer at all.
So, how do we keep those inches we work so hard to grow? Whether you’re new to the natural hair game or a seasoned vet, I’m here to share some tried-and-true tips to help you retain length and rock your natural hair with confidence. Let’s get into it!
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Table of Contents
How to Retain Length and Get Longer Hair.
1. Moisturize, Moisturize, Moisturize
One of the golden rules of length retention is keeping your hair moisturized. Dry hair is brittle hair, and brittle hair breaks easily. The key to retaining length is ensuring your hair stays soft, supple, and hydrated.
Daily Moisture Routine:
Start with a good leave-in conditioner that’s designed for natural hair. I love the African Pride Moisture Miracle Coconut Oil & Baobab Oil Leave-In Hair Cream because it’s creamy, thick, moisturizing and perfect for coarse 4C natural hair. Follow up with a sealing oil like Carol’s Daughter Goddess Strength 7 Oil Blend Scalp and Hair Oil or Jamaican Black Castor Oil to lock in that moisture. Remember, oils don’t moisturize—they seal in the moisture from your leave-in, so don’t skip this step!
For added hydration, incorporate a moisturizing spray into your routine. Maui Moisture Frizz-Free + Shea Butter Leave-in Conditioning Mist, is fantastic for a quick moisture boost throughout the day.
Pro Tip: Focus on the ends of your hair when moisturizing, as they are the oldest and most vulnerable part of your hair. Get more details on what to consider before moisturizing, your hair’s porosity and so much more on moisturizing here.
2. Gentle Detangling
Detangling can either be your best friend or your worst enemy, depending on how you approach it. Aggressive detangling can lead to unnecessary breakage, so it’s important to take your time and be gentle.
Detangling Tools:
Use a wide-tooth comb or, better yet, your fingers to detangle. Start at the ends and work your way up to the roots, using a generous amount of conditioner or detangler to provide slip. The Felicia Leatherwood Detangler Brush is a game-changer for many naturals—it glides through tangles with ease.
Pro Tip: Detangle your hair in sections to avoid pulling and tugging on large clumps of hair at once. And always detangle on damp or wet hair, never dry.
3. Protective Styling
Protective styles are a great way to give your hair a break from daily manipulation, which can lead to breakage. Styles like braids, twists, buns, and updos keep your ends tucked away and protected from the elements.
Popular Protective Styles:
- Box Braids: A classic style that can last for weeks with proper care.
- Twists: Two-strand twists are versatile and can be styled in various ways.
- Buns: A low bun is quick, easy, and keeps your ends protected.
Pro Tip: Don’t leave protective styles in for too long—4-8 weeks is usually a good timeframe. Make sure to moisturize your hair while it’s in the protective style, and be gentle when taking it down to avoid unnecessary breakage.
4. Regular Trims
I know, I know—cutting your hair to retain length seems counterintuitive. But trust me, regular trims are essential for getting rid of split ends and preventing them from traveling up the hair shaft, which can lead to even more breakage.
Trimming Frequency:
You don’t have to trim often—every 3-6 months should do the trick. If you’re diligent about moisturizing and protective styling, you might be able to stretch it out a bit longer.
Pro Tip: If you’re comfortable doing so, learn how to dust your ends at home. This involves trimming a tiny amount off the very tips of your hair, just enough to get rid of any split ends.
5. Deep Conditioning
Deep conditioning is a non-negotiable step in any natural hair care routine, especially when it comes to length retention. It helps to strengthen your hair, improve elasticity, and maintain moisture levels.
Deep Conditioners I Love:
- SheaMoisture Manuka Honey & Mafura Oil Intensive Hydration Hair Masque: Perfect for dry, thirsty curls.
- TGIN Honey Miracle Hair Mask
- Arvazallia Fortifying Protein Hair Mask and Deep Conditioner
- Mielle Organics Babassu & Mint Deep Conditioner with Protein, Moisturizing & Conditioning Deep Treatment.
Pro Tip: Deep condition your hair weekly or bi-weekly, depending on your hair’s needs. Apply the conditioner generously and use a plastic cap to trap in heat, allowing the product to penetrate deeply into your hair.
6. Minimize Heat Styling
Heat styling tools like flat irons, curling wands, and blow dryers can cause significant damage to natural hair, leading to breakage and hindering length retention. If you’re serious about growing your hair, it’s time to minimize heat usage.
Heat-Free Styling Options:
- Bantu Knots: Create defined curls without the need for heat.
- Flexi-Rods: Achieve bouncy curls and waves.
- Twist-Outs/Braid-Outs: Add texture and definition to your hair naturally.
Pro Tip: If you must use heat, always apply a heat protectant first. TRESemmé Thermal Creations Heat Tamer Spray is a good choice that won’t weigh your hair down.
7. Scalp Care
Healthy hair starts with a healthy scalp. Keeping your scalp clean and well-nourished is crucial for promoting hair growth and retaining length.
Scalp Care Tips:
- Regular Cleansing: Use a sulfate-free shampoo like As I Am Coconut Cowash or SheaMoisture Jamaican Black Castor Oil Shampoo to keep your scalp clean without stripping your hair of moisture.
- Scalp Massages: Stimulate blood circulation and promote hair growth with regular scalp massages. You can use a lightweight oil like jojoba oil or tea tree oil to nourish your scalp while you massage.
Pro Tip: Don’t scratch your scalp with your nails! Instead, use the pads of your fingers to gently cleanse and massage.
8. Sleep Protection
The way you care for your hair while you sleep can make a big difference in length retention. Friction from your pillowcase can lead to tangles, dryness, and breakage.
Sleep Essentials:
- Satin or Silk Bonnet: Protect your hair by wearing a satin or silk bonnet at night.
- Satin Pillowcase: If bonnets aren’t your thing, opt for a satin pillowcase to reduce friction and keep your hair smooth.
Pro Tip: If you’re prone to tangling, consider loosely braiding or twisting your hair before bed to keep it in place and minimize knots.
9. Be Patient and Consistent
Length retention doesn’t happen overnight—it requires patience, consistency, and a little bit of love. Stick to a routine that works for you, and don’t get discouraged if you don’t see immediate results. Over time, with proper care, you’ll notice your hair growing longer, stronger, and healthier.
Retaining length with natural hair is all about nurturing your strands and treating them with care. From moisturizing regularly to protecting your hair at night, every step you take is a step toward achieving your length goals. Remember, it’s not just about growing long hair—it’s about maintaining the health and integrity of your hair as it grows.
So, go ahead and start implementing these tips into your routine. Your natural hair is beautiful, and with a little patience and consistency, you’ll be flaunting those inches in no time!
Got any length retention tips that work for you? Share them in the comments below—I’d love to hear how you’re caring for your natural hair!